Ice hockey goalies (even those with 3 days of experience) often describe the feeling of invincibility because they strapped head to toe with great protection.
That is definitely not the case with lacrosse goalies but at least by using as much protection as we can, we’re able to feel a little more confident in the goal. And that confidence translates into being less scared of the ball.
Start with Tennis Balls
Tennis balls are great for beginners for a few reasons.
One – they don’t sting like lacrosse balls. Taking a tennis ball shot to the thigh is completely different than taking a lacrosse ball to the thigh.
The former you’ll feel a little but it won’t really hurt. The latter results in something like this:
Two – tennis balls are actually harder to save without giving up a rebound. The softness and lightness of the ball tends to pop out of our lacrosse goalie mesh.
From the shooter’s perspective using tennis balls is different but when it comes to making a safe, lacrosse goalies still need to execute the basics whether its a tennis ball or a lacrosse ball coming their way.
Even with experienced goalies when I’m doing drills like the Irish Guard where the goalie takes a lot of shots <8 yards in a short period, I’ll always use tennis balls.
If a guy who’s been playing lacrosse all his life is afraid of tennis balls, what makes you think your young goalie won’t be?
While there are certain drills (covered below) and techniques that can help reduce a goalie’s fear of the shot, ultimately our best weapon against fear is time and experience.
The more shots you see, the more accustomed you get, the less you fear the ball.
This is true in many areas of life, right? Whether it’s learning to swim, learning to mountain bike, or striking up a conversation with a beautiful girl. At first you’re scared. But with time and experience you get accustomed and realize what you were scared of in the beginning is no longer as frightening.
So have patience. With experience lacrosse goalies lose their fear of the ball.
Adjust Your Mental Approach
I talked about the mental approach in post I wrote about eliminating the turtle. A primary point of that post is that a huge factor to eliminating the fear response is the goalie’s mental approach.
It takes time but developing an “attack the ball” mindset is critical to goalie success. This is one of the main reasons I teach goalies to step at a 45 degree angle vs. lateral when they’re getting started. A 45 degree step towards the ball helps develop an attack the ball philosophy.
You can also use vocal triggers the fortify your mental game. Let’s go – shoot it – come on, bring it! – These are a couple of vocal triggers I use with goalies to help get them into an aggressive, “attack the ball” mindset.
There is no elite goalie who doesn’t have this mindset.
The desire to stop the ball must completely drown out any feelings of fear.
Read that sentence again – The desire to stop the ball must completely drown out any feelings of fear.
If the feeling of fear is greater than your desire to stop the ball you will not be a good goalie. Period.
When I was a goalie at Cal our football team had a running back by the name of Marshawn Lynch. His nickname was “Beast Mode” because of the mental state he brought to each game, mentally transforming into an aggressive mindset for each game and each play happening within that game.
The “Beast Mode” mindset is something a lacrosse goalie must bring into games and practices so that the fear response never rears its ugly head.
So before you jump into the crease, remember…
Drills to Eliminate the Fear Response
In addition to working the mental approach to eliminating the fear response, there are also a few specific drills that you can do with a beginner goalie who is constantly flinching and dealing with turtle mode.
As I mentioned above, that’s the body’s natural response, so these drills will help override that response so a goalie can focus on making saves.
Only through repetition can a goalie override the body’s natural response and eliminate the turtle.
Shots Behind A Chain-Linked Fence
One drill I’ve been using lately was actually introduced to me by a reader of this blog who was taught by Coach Guy Van Arsdale, an All-American goalie.
We’ll call it “Chain Fence”. The goalie stands protected behind a chain link fence, with or without pads but we usually keep the helmet on at a minimum.
I’ll fire shots at the goalie as hard as I can and the goalie makes simulated saves. Focusing on the aggressive mindset and attacking the shot.
I think the fence helps the body understand that no pain is possible and therefore no fear is needed. As you repeat shot after shot with no fear, the body starts to detach fear from shot.
This helps the goalie develop a no fear mindset and helps them attack that ball once the chain link fence is no longer there.
Shots With A Nerf Ball
The 2nd drill I use to eliminate the fear response comes from Coach Buck. It’s called “Nerf Ball”.
Again this drill can be used to remove the association of fear and shot. They’re nerf balls, they don’t hurt.
Even with the nerf balls you’ll find beginning goalies can still flinch or go into turtle mode in this drill. Work that out of their system.
They should be calm and focused on the ball’s release in this drill.
Here’s is Coach Buck’s video of that drill:
I’ve yet to find exact type of nerf ball Coach Buck uses but I’ve used these nerf golf balls with success for this drill.
The more shots a young goalie sees the more comfortable he/she will start to feel in goal.
While nearly every beginning goalie will demonstrate some element of the fear response in the early days, with repetition after repetition their mindset changes and they start to fear the ball less.
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5 thoughts on “Help Coach! I’m Afraid of the Ball”
Btw the pro lax player trying goalie is not a pro lax player he’s from a yt channel called yes theory. Other than that, great article!
Ahh ok that makes some more sense, I thought it actually was Baptiste. Thanks Ethan.
One thing I do to over come fear of lacrosse balls is I only where my helmet, and chest protecter, and I have someone throw tennis ball at me, and I have no stick, so I the tennis balls hit my body I know what the pain will feel like, and it also just helps me get used to the ball hit me, and the ball coming at me fast.
Loved the Podcast simple advise to help mitigate the fear instinct.
Appreciate that Robert!